You didn't come to this world to suffer in your relationships.
Let's transform them.
I'm Viri
I'm a certified Relationship Coach and I'm here to help you create the kind of relationships you want to have in your life
As a coach, I use a trauma-informed approach and use the Enneagram and Attachment Theory as relational and personal development tools.
I have had the privilege of helping dozens of people transform their relationships with themselves and with the people who matter most to them.
I don't know what your story is but I know you deserve someone to hear it. I am here to hear you out.
ENNEAGRAM?
What is the
The Enneagram is a powerful tool for personal and spiritual growth that has changed my life and has allowed me to help my clients transform theirs.
The theory describes 9 personality types, and it does not only tell us what their traits are as other theories do, but it shows us what their main struggles, lessons left to learn and paths of growth are.
I use it in my work with my clients to identify the areas in which they are stuck, why they keep repeating the same patterns, and how to break them.
ATTACHMENT THEORY?
Ever heard of
Do you tend to lose yourself every time you start a new relatiionship? Or on the contrary, do you avoid losing your freedom so much that you have a hard time genuinely connecting to others?
Attachment Theory tells us how the relationships we had with our primary caretakers in infancy are still affecting us in our adulthood. It describes four different attachment styles: one secure attachment style and three types of insecure attachment styles (anxioius, avoidant and disorganized).
I use this theory to identify some wounds and related needs that are showing up in my clients' current relationships so that, when they are able to heal those wounds, they can move closer to a secure attachment style.
What services do I offer?
Relationship Coaching
Feeling a lot of anxiety in your relationships? Going through a break-up? Can't stop fighting with your parents? Let's figure out why and what we can do about it.
Enneagram Coaching
Through the Enneagram, I'll help you discover what hidden patterns, beliefs and fears are keeping you stuck in your personal development and in your relationships, and how to get unstuck.
Typing session
If you're still unsure about your Enneatype, tritype, or subtype, I'll help you discover that here. It may take us anywhere from one to 3 sessions but the cost is the same regardless.
SUPPORT YOU?
How else can I
Define and advocate for your relationships wants and needs
Learn to move towards a secure attachment style
Breaking patterns of codependency
Non-violent communication, how to become more assertive
Coping with a break-up
Emotional management
Recovery after abuse
Defining, setting and enforcing boundaries
Are Coaching and Therapy the same thing?
Coaching and psycotherapy are NOT the same thing. One of the main differences is that coaching (unless otherwise specified) is not a clinical service, which means it doesn't quality as a health care service as psycotherapy does. As a coach, I am not able to make clinical diagnoses (i.e. depresion, anxiety, personality disorders, etc.), nor can I provide clinical treatments. I am not able to help you treat your anxiety, depresion or trauma, but I am able to give you tools to navigate these difficult times and relationships with greater emotional management and agility, as well as a clear strategy to help you achieve your relationship goals. We will focus on discovering and changing the limiting beliefs that are keeping you stuck in your current relationships and on you finding a sense of meaning and satisfaction with you and those around you.
What my CLIENTS say about me
"Viri is so professional and empathetic, her active listening always makes me feel safe and judgment-free, and she provides the ideal safe space for me to be open to new ideas. When I talk to her I know she'll know how to take me out of my head space and see new perspectives without making me feel overwhelmed because she talks so clearly that you can easily digest the ideas she's exposing to you. I highly recommend her as a coach! She's just the best."
- Gaby.
"The best thing about talking to Viri is that you don't feel judged at all. She helps you look at things from a different perspective while being a safe place to talk and making you feel understood. She has been key to my emotional survival after emotional breakdowns. I highly recommend her!"
- María
"I have been working with Viri for over a year and she has changed my life, it has been so nice to be able to share my relationship journey with her, she has made me see things in a different light and I have become more confident and comfortable with my self which has improved all my relationships with partners friends and family. I like the podcasts and YOUTUBE VIDOES she shares and find them really relatable. It can be a nerve racking thing speaking about your feelings but viri always makes me feel super comfortable and is able to help me see things in different lights. If you were ever thinking ‘is this for me’ I can not recommend more! Thank you thank you thank you!❤️ "
- C.